Tom Schwartz has lastly stopped sporting his marriage ceremony ring one month after spouse Katie Maloney filed for divorce.
“I’ve been sporting it for the previous few months, however I simply awakened in the future and I used to be like, ‘Perhaps it’s time to cease sporting it out of respect for Katie,’” the “Vanderpump Guidelines” star, 39, solely advised Web page Six Thursday evening on the grand opening of Vanderpump à Paris in Las Vegas. “There was no particular catalyst, although.”
He continued, “I don’t wish to look like I’m clinging onto one thing, however the cause I saved sporting it’s as a result of A) it’s an attractive ring and B) I nonetheless have an ideal love and admiration for Katie. I like her with all my coronary heart.”
Schwartz — who debuted a naked left hand at boss Lisa Vanderpump’s Sin Metropolis celebration — defined that he felt uncomfortable with out his Kyle Chan-designed band till just lately.
“Right here’s the factor. I’m nonetheless head over heels in love with my spouse, Katie. I’ll all the time love her,” he mentioned. “I wore the ring for a very long time as a result of I really feel bare with out it and I really feel so weak with out the ring.”
The Schwartz & Sandy’s co-founder went on to say that Maloney, 35, has been “so accommodating” as he processes the top of their journey as a pair.
“Katie’s been so f—king nice. I hate the phrase accommodating. It sounds so sterile, however she’s been superb,” he mentioned of the “You’re Gonna Love Me” podcast host. “We’ve been respectful of one another’s boundaries. However she’s my woman. Despite the fact that we’re separated, I’d do something for her.”
Maloney — who additionally attended the Vegas bash — advised Web page Six that she and Schwartz will “all the time have one another’s backs,” particularly as they navigate the early phases of their separation.
“I’m glad that we have now had time to take our time, do it collectively, untangle collectively and never have it’s this abrupt, chilly turkey scenario,” she mentioned, including that it has been a “reduction” to acclimate to single life with out Bravo cameras rolling. (The community has but to announce plans for a tenth season of “Pump Guidelines.”)
“We would have liked this time to determine it out and take these subsequent steps. It’s one step at a time,” she elaborated. “He needed to get there on his personal time with the ring and all the things, which I fully understood.”
Whereas Maloney has expressed an curiosity in relationship — “I simply need a little bit little bit of consideration, nothing critical,” she advised Web page Six — Schwartz admitted that he’s “f—king terrified” of placing himself on the market once more.
“I went out the opposite evening and I used to be on the bar and there was a pair on a primary date they usually have been speaking, like, ‘The place are you from, what do you do?’” he recalled. “And I wished to crawl right into a gap. It sounded terrible. I don’t wish to have to return to the start like that. I’ll be OK, however I’m terrified.”
Nonetheless, Schwartz mentioned he “wholeheartedly” helps Maloney in her present romantic pursuits.
“I would like her to get on the market, do what she has to do and discover love. However yeah, I’m not going to be relationship for a very long time,” he mentioned earlier than joking, “I’m going to be a hermit. I’m going to develop a beard. I would go forward and change into a cobbler. I don’t know, I don’t know what’s going to occur with my love life.”
Maloney formally filed for divorce from Schwartz on March 22 after practically three years of marriage. That they had been collectively for 12 years earlier than asserting final month that they have been going their separate methods.
“I don’t suppose we have been ever a mannequin couple. Perhaps we’re mannequin divorcées. A doubtful title I suppose,” Schwartz wrote on Instagram on the time, ending his submit saying that he might be fantastic.
“So I’ll shut up now and say it one final time, love you Bub. All the time & without end you’ll be in my coronary heart.”